The Five Love Languages & Relationships

 Physical Touch

This is pretty self-explanatory. Being one with each other on a physical level.

holding hands, kissing, cuddling, intimate touching

Quality Time

This is all about giving your time to your partner. The mushy kind of time. Staring deep into one anothers eyes, contemplating the universe together. Undivided you're the only person here kind of attention.

dinner, dates, conversations, being present

Words Of Affirmation

Saying nice things to your person.

compliments, sharing feelings, positive thoughts, encouragements

Acts Of Service

This is expressed by doing things to show your love. This is the everyday, the nitty-gritty, the life part of the life you live together. It's the stuff that can go so easily unnoticed.

helping out with household chores, children, work, ect

Gifts

No matter what the gift is it is a visual representation of your love.

presents, flowers, ect

For Me being in tune with your partner & their Love Language & relationship style is important. (I always like to speak on myself & my own personal experiences, so I tend to use I statements a lot.) I personally could not be with a person who isn't affectionate. I thrive off of Physical touch... I personally feel unloved & unwanted if I don't receive that. Quality time is also big for me because I'm a talker... I'm a sucker for a good conversation. I'm big on knowing how to love someone how they want & need to be loved and not how I want to give that to them. I feel like there would be more successful relationships if we took that time to learn our partner. Take the time to really get deep, dig under the surface. Ask the dumb/abnormal questions, talk about any & everything. Be open & honest and DON'T be a pick me.

This Life Is Yours & Yours Alone

 You have to stop living in the context of other peoples opinions...

what others think of you is none of your business

divorce yourself from the crowd

process of elimination

get rid of the excess

because noone is going to save you

you have to dig yourself out of that hole youre in

mentally

physically

emotionally

I Fortunately & Unfortunately learned this the hard way. When things in life get rough you're usually left to fend for yourself. That's why these days I don't surround myself with that many people. I have a very small circle. Being "Ms.Popular" isn't my thing anymore. I'd rather not be seen. I've went thru some of the darkest times of my life with literally maybe a handful of people next to me. Genuinely next to me & not there just to be nosey! Not too many people KNOW ME. Most people know "Lo" or my social media "persona". And honestly at this point in my life I really don't care. I don't need the attention or fake love.

HEALING

I pray for your healing, you've been in pain for far too long

tho you needed that pain so you wouldn't have to feel it again

it's time for a fresh start time for a new cycle to begin

you only have ONE Life... THIS Life...

and you deserve all the blessings it can bring

STOP beating yourself up

it's time to feel genuinely happy again

embrace this new journey

although growth can sometimes feel lonely

in the end it'll be worth it

God, your Higher Power has aleady showed you so much mercy